You can’t really complain when you’ve been in a relationship with your partner for a few years and are now living together. Yet, something seems missing. Could this be the fact that you’re ready to become engaged, though your other half doesn’t appear to have given it a thought?
If that’s the case, marquise engagement ring stockist Angelic Diamonds has four ways to make your boyfriend aware that you want him to pop the question:
The simplest method can often be the best in this scenario, so just have a chat with your partner about where you would like your relationship to go. It needn’t be an awkward conversation; just discuss with your partner why you want to get married and he should soon start to understand just how much he means to you. Sometimes people have the same fears and doubts within a relationship, but they are just too afraid to address them with each other. By talking about your future together, he’ll know that you want to be a part of it.
Become your partner’s go-to guy
Does it feel as though you and your boyfriend have assigned roles in your relationship? It’s time that you become your other half’s go-to guy as well as girlfriend then. If you’re constantly being left behind for the guys, then this is going to put a strain on his ability to propose and take you seriously.
Try to take an interest in his hobbies, for example, or arrange to exercise together whenever possible. If you can be part of his whole life, rather than just someone he spends time with, then he’ll feel like you’re indispensable. Once you get to this point in your relationship, then he’ll feel like proposing, as he can’t spend his time without you!
Arrange things with married couples
Your partner could be reluctant to ask for your hand in marriage because of being worried or anxious about married life. Try to resolve this by hanging around with friends who are happily married, as well as family members who also have children. This will make him realise that you’re comfortable with him being around others in more serious relationships.
The ups and downs of married life will likely be exposed when you hang out with married friends and family members, but at the very least if should also get your boyfriend picturing a wonderful married life with you. Although men who have parents that are divorced sometimes struggle to trust this commitment, replacing negative feelings with positive ones in this type of environment may help to bring him around to your way of thinking.
Try some tough love
Have the nice methods failed? Then it may be time to be cruel to be kind in order to take your relationship to the next level. If you don’t see your relationship heading in the right direction, and things are flatlining, try and find his pulse again by telling him you may move out.
That might be too dramatic an approach for some. If this is the case, use a different approach and make a decision like changing careers or going out with your friends more and don’t ask for your partner’s advice beforehand. Although he knows that you’re always there for him, this will make him feel that he isn’t being as included as he should be, and he’ll start to wonder why. Keeping him on his toes in this way will make him realise that he needs to put the effort in (by proposing!) so that he can get your undivided effort and attention in the future.
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